
Sean Stoakes pictured the day after he was punched and kicked near the Broad Street Mall in the early hours of July 7
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'Find who did this to my son'
By Mike PyleJuly 23, 2012
A mother has called for police to do more to catch the thug who did this to her son’s face.
Caversham man Sean Stoakes was skateboarding when he was punched and kicked by a man as a group of the thug’s friends looked on and laughed at around 1.30am on Saturday, July 7.
His phone and wallet, containing his birthday money, were stolen.
Mr Stoakes is a diabetic and his attacker also took his insulin and kicked him so badly in his stomach, the area he uses to inject, that he has found it difficult to take his insulin.
It is the second time the vulnerable 22-year-old has been beaten up in two years and now his mum Chloe is concerned about the long-term impact this second incident could have on his health.
He was only out in the early hours because he feels safer when fewer people are about, Mrs Stoakes said.
Although the attack near the Broad Street Mall appeared to be random and Mr Stoakes did not know his assailant, Mr Stoakes did recognise one of the people he was with and used Facebook to identify the man who beat him up.
He and his mum gave the name of their suspect to police but, despite repeated visits to his house, officers have still not made an arrest.
Mrs Stoakes, who is deaf and unable to use the phone so has been communicating with police through text messages, said: “Despite identifying his attacker to police no arrests have been made, no support offered and no-one has visited us at home – I am disgusted how little the police assist families such as mine.
“They did nothing two years ago. They never tried to pursue his attacker. This time I’ve had enough of it.”
Last week police sent this text message to Mrs Stoakes: “Attempts are being made [to speak to the man Mrs Stoakes identified] about three times per day with response officers.
“I haven’t been updated with anything from this so I assume that nothing has been successful. I will contact you when we have managed to arrest him.”
Two years ago, not long after he moved to Reading, Mr Stoakes was attacked near the Thames in King’s Meadow and his mum says it had a profound effect on his life.
She said: “He was at college, doing fantastically with his life, and then he was severely attacked.
“He was beaten up so badly he had to spend three weekends in hospital, they had to shave his head – it was really hard for him.
“When he came out he became severely depressed. He wouldn’t leave the house, he wouldn’t contact anyone. It was really hard for us to get support for him because of his age. He lost motivation, he’s felt suicidal at times because it’s been so difficult getting support.
“He restarted college but, unfortunately, because of what happened he had panic attacks and he couldn’t carry on.”
Mr Stoakes managed to get a place on a course with the DKH Legacy Trust, a charity set up by Dame Kelly Holmes to help vulnerable young people, and made progress during his time on the course but slipped back into depression when it finished.
Mrs Stoakes, who gave up work to care for her son, added: “I’m really worried about what this attack will do to him.
“How long will it carry on for? His depression and mental health issues have made him a target. There are gangs who have called him names and spat at him. He only goes out at night because there are fewer people around and he thinks its safer. Now this has happened. It makes you fear the worst.”
Police have confirmed they are investigating the incident. Anyone with information can call police on 101 or Crimestoppers on 0800 555 111.

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Is this the police or Get Reading ho have not given us this info?
They need finding fast, they are awful, awful injuries. Get well soon mate.
24/07/2012 at 16:58 Offensive or Inappropriate?
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The empowering fantasies of the dispossessed. I understand now why Jeremy Kyle shouts at these people. I want to shout at them too.
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i understand he feels safer with less people about, but early in the morning in a town centre??? hasn't he heard the freaks come out at night?
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It is a sad story, and if you know the victim and family and heard their side of the story, I am sure you will feel aggrieved. But having only been able to see one side of the story and you are already advocating violence? That is not justice, that is just an excuse for thuggery - no different from the sickos who did this to Mr Stoakes. Whoever did this might say they were applying their own Soupa style mob 'justice', but that does not make it right does it.
How about I put it like this - should society goes your way Soupa, I should hope you don't complain if you ever get your face smashed in because somebody accused you of a crime, without giving you a chance to defend yourself. I expect you won't be such a fan of the low ground then.
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This kind of rhetoric speaks exactly the same attitude as the heinous thugs that committed this crime - they both think they are above the law of the land. One might justify their views by saying this is a wider problem in society, but in all fairness beatings like this do not happen as the norm. We don't hear about them every day, and I personally do not fear for my safety walking about town most hours of the day.
However if vigilantes decided to apply DIY rough justice of their own accord, as a few on here have a little more than implied, then beatings like this *would* become the norm and society would be brought to its knees by violent thugs on high horses dressed up in false morals.
24/07/2012 at 10:31 Offensive or Inappropriate?
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How can a group of friends stand by while some innocent person gets the brown stuff punched out of them.
I understand why someone who is a little vulnable may be out at such an hour but it is exactly this time frame that all the worst of Reading seem to be roaming the streets.
If the big tough hard nut is ever caught and charged, I for one hope that his name and mug shot is plastered over ever availble media, so everyone will know he is just a scumbag, and next it his mug, put the same picture of the victim as well.
Naming and shaming is the only way of getting the vermin off the streets, or at least prevent them from behaving like the scum they are.
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As for my popping up, how does anyone learn but by offering perspective, engaging debate and being corrected (including me, of course)?
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@Danny0367 : No, the public cannot know of the currently ALLEGED identity because of influence on any future Jury Duties.
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Doesnt the general public deserve to know that there is a person walking the streets who is capable of doing such a thing, even if it is to protect there own families ?
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