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Sean Stoakes pictured the day after he was punched and kicked near the Broad Street Mall in the early hours of July 7
Sean Stoakes pictured the day after he was punched and kicked near the Broad Street Mall in the early hours of July 7
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'Find who did this to my son'

By Mike Pyle
July 23, 2012

A mother has called for police to do more to catch the thug who did this to her son’s face.

Caversham man Sean Stoakes was skateboarding when he was punched and kicked by a man as a group of the thug’s friends looked on and laughed at around 1.30am on Saturday, July 7.

His phone and wallet, containing his birthday money, were stolen.

Mr Stoakes is a diabetic and his attacker also took his insulin and kicked him so badly in his stomach, the area he uses to inject, that he has found it difficult to take his insulin.

It is the second time the vulnerable 22-year-old has been beaten up in two years and now his mum Chloe is concerned about the long-term impact this second incident could have on his health.

He was only out in the early hours because he feels safer when fewer people are about, Mrs Stoakes said.

Although the attack near the Broad Street Mall appeared to be random and Mr Stoakes did not know his assailant, Mr Stoakes did recognise one of the people he was with and used Facebook to identify the man who beat him up.

He and his mum gave the name of their suspect to police but, despite repeated visits to his house, officers have still not made an arrest.

Mrs Stoakes, who is deaf and unable to use the phone so has been communicating with police through text messages, said: “Despite identifying his attacker to police no arrests have been made, no support offered and no-one has visited us at home – I am disgusted how little the police assist families such as mine.

“They did nothing two years ago. They never tried to pursue his attacker. This time I’ve had enough of it.”

Last week police sent this text message to Mrs Stoakes: “Attempts are being made [to speak to the man Mrs Stoakes identified] about three times per day with response officers.

“I haven’t been updated with anything from this so I assume that nothing has been successful. I will contact you when we have managed to arrest him.”

Two years ago, not long after he moved to Reading, Mr Stoakes was attacked near the Thames in King’s Meadow and his mum says it had a profound effect on his life.

She said: “He was at college, doing fantastically with his life, and then he was severely attacked.

“He was beaten up so badly he had to spend three weekends in hospital, they had to shave his head – it was really hard for him.

“When he came out he became severely depressed. He wouldn’t leave the house, he wouldn’t contact anyone. It was really hard for us to get support for him because of his age. He lost motivation, he’s felt suicidal at times because it’s been so difficult getting support.

“He restarted college but, unfortunately, because of what happened he had panic attacks and he couldn’t carry on.”

Mr Stoakes managed to get a place on a course with the DKH Legacy Trust, a charity set up by Dame Kelly Holmes to help vulnerable young people, and made progress during his time on the course but slipped back into depression when it finished.

Mrs Stoakes, who gave up work to care for her son, added: “I’m really worried about what this attack will do to him.

“How long will it carry on for? His depression and mental health issues have made him a target. There are gangs who have called him names and spat at him. He only goes out at night because there are fewer people around and he thinks its safer. Now this has happened. It makes you fear the worst.”

Police have confirmed they are investigating the incident. Anyone with information can call police on 101 or Crimestoppers on 0800 555 111.

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   Hope they find the culprit, it would be interesting to know why somone would do this? i say name & shame the guy. Best Wishes to Sean and his distraught Mother for Sean's complete recovery, hope he finds suitable help for mental scaring very soon, sooner the better! and help with finding training - something he can focus on may help him. Just to let Sean know things will improve and there are alot of good people around. some areas in Reading are best not visited after dark, hope somone can let Sean know what areas are best avoided.
Busby
08/08/2012 at 13:41 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Thanks Jammie Jimmie, I may yet take up howards proposal to stand for the nonsense party,but in all seriousness, you may know me better by my alter ego, diablo rossi
The Racing Snake
26/07/2012 at 00:45 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   racing snake, that is a brilliant idea. I think you should replace ken clarke!
jam master jim
25/07/2012 at 12:55 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   DocD, I was a bit unclear in my original post, after this waste of human space is caught, tried, convicted and sentenced, then plaster his face across the town, lets erect hugh bill boards so we can show villians of the week, with a description of the crimes and sentences passed.
The Racing Snake
25/07/2012 at 00:18 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Put the wanted mans's picture in the paper! Surely the public would be pleased to help locate him!
Howard Thomas Common Sense party
25/07/2012 at 00:14 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   buck, the police know who the man is but he's apparently never in. Or the police don't check kitchen cupboards anymore. Altho a description would mean Joe public could call when he emerges from his hovel
jam master jim
24/07/2012 at 18:54 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   buck, the police know who the man is but he's apparently never in. Or the police don't check kitchen cupboards anymore. Altho a description would mean Joe public could call when he emerges from his hovel
jam master jim
24/07/2012 at 18:05 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Sorry if I have misread the article, but is there no description of the attacker & his cowardly onllookers (except he was "male"? That would help identify them (they all need finding).

Is this the police or Get Reading ho have not given us this info?

They need finding fast, they are awful, awful injuries. Get well soon mate.
Buck, Reading
24/07/2012 at 16:58 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   The biggest drawback of mob justice is that it puts the scales firmly into the hands of those who have a natural pre-disposition towards stamping on peoples' face to begin with, and yes, I'm not afraid to say it - those people live at the bottom of the food chain.

The empowering fantasies of the dispossessed. I understand now why Jeremy Kyle shouts at these people. I want to shout at them too.
~Dangermouse~, Baker Street
24/07/2012 at 16:36 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   if only labour hadn't bankrupted our country the tory's wouldn't have made cuts to police budgets, if only labour hadn't morally bankrupted our country with the flaming human criminals right act then the police could kick the flaming door in and find this person who apparantly is never in.

i understand he feels safer with less people about, but early in the morning in a town centre??? hasn't he heard the freaks come out at night?
jam master jim
24/07/2012 at 16:31 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   DocD, you make a fair point. Both sides of this argument ultimately want to see the same outcome, the criminal that was responsible bought to justice. Using the mob card is just a way to get the police to wake up and do their job. It's not their fault entirely. They have one hand tied behind their back with all the bureaucracy and human rights constraints. You are right also about judge, jury, and executioner. I would be the perfect candidate. Thank you for your nomination. ;)
Soupa' Badd, Krypton
24/07/2012 at 15:08 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   No Soupa. But I don't think we should not advocate violence against violence towards an accused who has not even been spoken to by anybody - just because the police has not been able to arrest the accused does not mean they are inept. There could be many reasons for the inaction which has led to the point where this has become a public appeal by Mr Stoakes' mother. We just don't know. And that is the key point. Are you really saying we should automatically presume guilt? Do you really think somebody like you should be allowed to be judge, jury, and executioner?

It is a sad story, and if you know the victim and family and heard their side of the story, I am sure you will feel aggrieved. But having only been able to see one side of the story and you are already advocating violence? That is not justice, that is just an excuse for thuggery - no different from the sickos who did this to Mr Stoakes. Whoever did this might say they were applying their own Soupa style mob 'justice', but that does not make it right does it.

How about I put it like this - should society goes your way Soupa, I should hope you don't complain if you ever get your face smashed in because somebody accused you of a crime, without giving you a chance to defend yourself. I expect you won't be such a fan of the low ground then.
DocD
24/07/2012 at 14:37 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   What and complete and utter joke the police haven't taken this seriously! I'm disgusted
Patty Oz
24/07/2012 at 11:35 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Unfortunately it is the moral high ground that breeds inaction. I prefer to take the low ground to avoid getting dizzy in the clouds. Mob justice is unacceptable in normal circumstances, but then so is zero justice. Whats the solution DocD? Should we wait it out and hope it all works out? Should we maintain our faith and hopes in this broken society?
Soupa' Badd, Krypton
24/07/2012 at 11:13 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Racing Snake, let me just make my position quite clear. Soupa's original comment said to 'name and shame (accidentally via twitter of course)' the accused before anybody has even been arrested and before anybody has even been charged, let alone proven to be guilty of this terrible crime.

This kind of rhetoric speaks exactly the same attitude as the heinous thugs that committed this crime - they both think they are above the law of the land. One might justify their views by saying this is a wider problem in society, but in all fairness beatings like this do not happen as the norm. We don't hear about them every day, and I personally do not fear for my safety walking about town most hours of the day.

However if vigilantes decided to apply DIY rough justice of their own accord, as a few on here have a little more than implied, then beatings like this *would* become the norm and society would be brought to its knees by violent thugs on high horses dressed up in false morals.
DocD
24/07/2012 at 10:31 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Words fail me, accept that the scum who did this needs the same doing to them.

How can a group of friends stand by while some innocent person gets the brown stuff punched out of them.

I understand why someone who is a little vulnable may be out at such an hour but it is exactly this time frame that all the worst of Reading seem to be roaming the streets.

If the big tough hard nut is ever caught and charged, I for one hope that his name and mug shot is plastered over ever availble media, so everyone will know he is just a scumbag, and next it his mug, put the same picture of the victim as well.

Naming and shaming is the only way of getting the vermin off the streets, or at least prevent them from behaving like the scum they are.
The Racing Snake
24/07/2012 at 00:01 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Soupa'Bass krypton,you've just apologised for airing a perfectly sane and sensible viewpoint,don't be sorry mate,you'll be labelled a soft lefty otherwise. I see it that too many people don't like to get involved "because", Its about time those people questioned their own morals for not butting in, a hell of a lot of men and women died in the past died for us to just turn the other cheek when it suits us.
wooly, caversham0
23/07/2012 at 20:16 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Fair point Me Again. There must be some particular demarcation on the matter though, as taking Danny0367 point, why are the public not therefore appraised of the movements of suspected paedophiles?

As for my popping up, how does anyone learn but by offering perspective, engaging debate and being corrected (including me, of course)?
C8H10N4O2
23/07/2012 at 19:32 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   This is really awful, feel very sorry this has happened.
Rosie123
23/07/2012 at 19:32 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   I accept that vigilante justice is not ideal nor civilised, but when all conservative means have been exhausted there only remains the drastic. I am of course talking of the wider state of our society, but this case serves as a typical example. We live in a world today where the criminals believe they are above the law. Mediocrity and sub-human standards appear to be the setting the bar, and I for one refuse to accept this. Years of pathetic socialist policies, combined with a morally degraded popular culture, are what have diluted the moral back-bone and authority that once existed. Fear of consequence no longer exists, and the virtues of hard work have been dismissed in favour of instant fame and fortune. The tables must be turned on this cancer before it becomes terminal. Nobody said the treatment would be easy, and nobody should believe it will be without side effect. But if we leave this untreated then society breaks down and dies. This is of course my opinion and I'm sure it will upset a few people. If it does, then I am sorry but I wont lose too much sleep over it.
Soupa' Badd, Krypton
23/07/2012 at 19:19 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   C8H10N4O2 - "No, the public cannot know of the currently ALLEGED identity because of influence on any future Jury Duties." - Wrong!! What about wanted posters and Crimewatch? Seriously mate, do you have to pop up everywhere and correct everybody?
Me again, reading
23/07/2012 at 18:41 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   I know this lad,yes he is 22 years old but to me he is just a lad,he couldn't hurt a slug which is more the pity because those town centre slugs need stamping on hard with a little salt added for good measure to see them squirm. It's all very well catching these gormless scrotes but they must be humiliated and punished big time. I'm afraid the softy left and human rights brigade have ruined my country which is exactly why these mouthy larey drunken and socially inadequate pillocks exist flexing their gobs and fists to impress the idiots they hang out with,on their own they are nothing. Yes I think his judgement is poor but that does not excuse the actions of idiot thugs,don't forget this is the second beating that's been reported in a matter of days and probably carried out by like minded boneheads. To be honest it wouldn't worry me if the bars were shut down or at least closed early,maybe breathalisers for drinkers with random testing so they can be flung into a drinkers cesspit over night and fined or punished when sober would work,once again its the minority who ruin things for the majority.
wooly, caversham0
23/07/2012 at 17:58 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Agree Readingguy....if you mean said person's current location.

@Danny0367 : No, the public cannot know of the currently ALLEGED identity because of influence on any future Jury Duties.
C8H10N4O2
23/07/2012 at 17:26 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   I cannot believe the comments of those trying to hide or some how offer words that provide the attacker with anonimity.

Doesnt the general public deserve to know that there is a person walking the streets who is capable of doing such a thing, even if it is to protect there own families ?
Danny0367, Chorley, Lancashire
23/07/2012 at 17:21 Offensive or Inappropriate?
   Hopefully, anybody reading this who knows who the attackers are, try to make their names public via facebook etc, and well of course, let the police know.
Readingguy, Reading
23/07/2012 at 17:20 Offensive or Inappropriate?
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